There are things you cannot reason with; Those are what make your life upside down, inside out... Don't play with them, don't poke them! Don't even think about them! Put them in a box, seal the box and leave it on the top shelf in the closet...
Someday when you want to move on, you'll find the box on the back of the top shelf. You will open the box and say "damn it, not again!"... and this goes on and on!